Sammi's non-fiction and poetry tends to focus on relationships, family, and women's issues. She also enjoys writing reviews for books, music, and food.
“Moon has doubled in size in the last week! Grow baby, grow!” I wanted to delete the app, but Moon was still inside me. Sure, the pregnancy was shrinking instead of growing, but ectopic means “out of place” not absent, and I still felt just as pregnant as I had when I first found out.
I knew that infertility support groups exist, but I craved a normalizing of the topic in everyday conversation. Despite my attempts to do just that, telling others about my journey has made trying to conceive during one of the loneliest eras in history even lonelier than I ever imagined staying silent would.
Remember the Halloween cookies and the art shows and the drive-thru lessons and the dart games and the nude park and the collages in the dolphin notebook and the long skirts you wore and the poems? What is love if not this? How old would I need to be to have it?
Save me, we say to each other,
I am not safe here.
I am not safe at home.
I am not safe.
You can keep that, / he seemed to say.
He meant my body.
No one ever gave me a gift like that.
After all, what are we talking about when we talk about magic? The trick, or our ability to believe in it?
But when we have that feeling, that “I have to tell this one” feeling, maybe that’s not material from the freefall, it’s what’s at the bottom, a tree, or maybe in my case on ocean, with fragments of our familial traumas that we have to retell, to reenact in our own words, to heal, not just ourselves but our families past and present. And maybe that’s why it aches sometimes to have a story you want to tell. Because trauma leaves pain.
If I poured myself a cup of glitter / to dunk a cookie in / it would feel good to be / so absurd.
But I'm a grown person— / an artifact, or worse, / a filing cabinet full of them.
But what can one person really say to another?I folded your laundry. There are bones in the trashcan. You LookSo Nice.
I always assumed, even when I was nine, that I was fulfilling something for you. A dream that I decided all men who only have girlsmight dream…
What the detective said was this: Because you were too intoxicated to remember exactly what happened, we had to close the case. I breathed into the phone, waiting. There had to be more. He filled the space with this: We just see so many of these cases.
These cases. What he meant was: Women are being raped constantly...
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At 24 I’ve been in the restaurant industry for nine years...
I’ve worked for corporations and indie shops, glorified fast food and fine dining, behind the bar and on the floor, but there is an unfortunate thread that runs through these experiences: there is always sexual harassment.
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